The Love and the Flower

God gave to the man the right to rule over the Earth and to have satisfaction and joy. But unfortunately this authority was transferred to the devil when man sinned and failed, and went away from the presence of God.
That is the reason why nowadays we see numerous family, marriage, and rebellious children being destroyed by a force of evil which works especially in the homes, for they know that when they can prevail against a single person they will destroy just the life of that person (one soul), but when the evil can prevail and destroy a couple with children, then he will be destroying an entire family.
The husband and the wife will suffer the consequences and these consequences will also be passed unto their children, and their children will also carry the wounds and bruises. That is the reason why nowadays we can conclude that: there are more people getting divorced than getting married.

People are afraid of making a serious commitment with their partners.
Marriage is a commitment, and many people do not want to commit themselves that is why they just live together with their partner thinking, “If it works, that’s great. But if it doesn’t, then goodbye.”
If the person gets married and still wants to live a life as a single person, so there is no commitment and the problems will start.
God created man and woman so that they can live in joy and be happy. But how is this possible if the Creator does not bless the relationship of the couple? It is not possible at all. There will be happiness, peace, communion and confidence between the couple and then understanding will grow between them and they will bear fruits together only when the blessings of God comes over the marriage. The love is not supposed to cool down and end as the time goes by, as what many people thinks. The love is supposed to grow and get stronger more and more…

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.” (1 Cor. 13:4-8)
The love never ends. But the love is getting cold in the hearts of those who thinks: “The love that I used to have for my (husband, wife, and partner) ended.” The love between marriage is like a flower, it needs care, (water, vitamins, a good soil, shades and sunlight), everything in good measure. If you don’t take care the flower will shrink and dry and it might even die.
Love requires faithfulness, respect, union, care, confidence and communication. If there is no more love, God is capable of bringing this love back, and when the love comes from God Himself, this love will never end because the care and the zeal for the love will be there and that love will last forever.

If you are facing problems with your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner or problems with your children, if your husband or wife abandoned you or left you, if you cannot forget the past, you cannot forgive; find help while you still have time.
God is capable of bringing back the authority that was given to you. God is capable of deleting the past and remove the pain and heal your wounds. God wants to rebuild your life and make you happy.

As it is written:"I have made you a father of many nations." He is our father in the sight of God, in whom he believed—the God who gives life to the dead and calls things that are not as though they were. (Romans 4:17)
Abraham and Sarah had everything, but they were not complete in their family. They did not have what they wanted the most. God brought to Abraham what did not exist, and gave him what he wanted the most. This is the God that we have believed; He makes the impossible become possible.

What does not exist in your life? What do you need the most now? Perhaps your dream was to have a family, and maybe you have a family but you don’t have peace, or maybe you are single and you did not find the right person yet. How can you know who is the right person? God is capable of preparing the right person for you (in the proper time), because He knows your needs and He is capable of turning your dreams into reality.
But this is possible only if the blessing of God is upon your life taking away every misunderstandings and problems that you may be facing now.

Knowing this and wanting this blessing, many couples have been seeking spiritual help in the UCKG and the blessing in their conjugal relationship. Many couples were blessed, some who were just “living together” as partners, they fixed themselves before men and before God and received the blessing of God upon their lives.
Let us help you!

Every Sunday at 9:30am In the UCKG Help Centre, you will receive the guidance that you need to be happy.

Do not give up on your dreams or your family, there is a solution for you – seek it.

Be blessed in Jesus name.


Bishop Marcelo
pastormarcelo@uckg.co.nz

Who has never dreamed of getting married, have children and build a family? Love and be loved? Find your other half?
I believe that this thought comes from God Himself. God is family and God’s desire is to make the human beings happy, for we were all created according to God’s resemblance.
In the book of Genesis 1:27 it says, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.”